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Wedding details card wording (including how to ask for money)

Planning a wedding is like piecing together a beautiful puzzle, and a piece of that puzzle is the wedding suite details card. These little cards may seem unassuming, but they play an important role in ensuring your big day runs smoothly and that your guests are well-informed and comfortable. In this guide, I'll break down the essential elements of a wedding details card, from accommodation and travel information to gift registries, and even explore the delicate art of asking for monetary gifts. So, let's dive in and make sure your UK wedding is an unforgettable experience for everyone involved... for the right reasons!

A details card from a wedding suite in blue ink on cream card
Details cards are often the unsung hero of a wedding suite

Do you even need a details card?

As technology continues to advance, many couples find themselves asking, "Do we even need a details card?" After all, wedding websites have become increasingly popular and offer a digital hub for sharing all the essential information with your guests. However, like any decision in wedding planning, there are both pros and cons to consider.

Pros of using a details card:

Tangible keepsake

A physical details card can serve as a cherished keepsake for you and your guests. It's a tangible reminder of your special day that can be saved in a scrapbook or wedding album.

Accessibility for all guests

Not all guests may have easy access to the internet or be tech-savvy. A details card ensures that everyone, regardless of their technological proficiency, can access the information they need.

No technical hiccups

Wedding websites are fantastic, but they do rely on internet connectivity and the functioning of your chosen platform. A details card eliminates the risk of technical hiccups or website downtime on the big day.

Quick reference

Guests can easily carry a details card in their handbag or pocket, making it a quick reference guide for important wedding information, such as venue directions or the schedule of events.

Personal touch

A beautifully designed details card adds a personal touch to your wedding suite. It allows you to incorporate your wedding theme, colours, and style into a physical element of your stationery.

Cons of using a details card:

Cost factor

Printing and postage costs for details cards can add to your overall wedding expenses. Couples on a tight budget may need to consider this factor.

Information updates

If there are any last-minute changes or updates to your wedding details, printed cards cannot be easily edited. You may need to communicate changes through other means.

Potential for misplacement

Details cards can be misplaced or forgotten by guests. Unlike a digital platform that can be accessed anytime, physical cards may not always be readily available when needed.

Limited space

Details cards, while flexible in size, have limited space, so you must be concise in your information. If you have an extensive list of accommodations, activities, or other details, it might be challenging to fit everything on.

Technological expectations

In today's digital age, some guests may expect information to be available online. They might find it less convenient to refer to a printed card, especially if they prefer the convenience of accessing information via their smartphones.

Finding the balance:

Ultimately, the decision of whether to use a details card or rely solely on a wedding website comes down to your personal preferences, budget, and the needs of your guest list. Many couples find a happy medium by utilising both methods. You can create an elegant details card to accompany your wedding suite, providing a tangible keepsake while still directing guests to your website for additional information and interactive features like RSVP and guest messaging.

So what things should go on a details card?

Dress code

Let your guests know what to wear to your special day. This avoids any potential wardrobe mishaps or clothing that's unsuitable for the time of year or location.

Formal: "Black tie attire requested."

Casual: "Dress comfortably for an outdoor celebration."

Accommodation information

If you've done your guests a favour and arranged some accommodation in or near the venue, let them know the names and any codes to quote when booking.

Formal: "For your convenience, we have reserved a block of rooms at [Hotel Name] located at [Address]. Please mention the [Your Last Name] wedding when booking. Limited rooms available, so book early."

Casual: "We've got rooms waiting for you at [Hotel Name]! Mention our wedding for a special rate."

Travel information

Especially important for destination weddings or out-of-the-way venues, give your guests a clear set of instructions on how to get there!

Formal: "Guests travelling from afar, the nearest airport is [Airport Name]. We recommend arranging transportation to the venue, which is [distance] from the airport."

Casual: "If you're flying in, [Airport Name] is your gateway to the party! It's only a short drive from there to the venue."

Transportation information

Inform your guests of transportation options you've arranged for them to and from the venue.

Formal: "Transportation from [Designated Location] to the venue will be provided. Please confirm your seat by [RSVP Deadline]."

Casual: "We've got rides covered! Hop on our shuttle from [Designated Location] to the party."

Venue rules and regulations

Check with your venue and share any important specific rules or dress code requirements (e.g. some older houses don't allow stiletto shoes as they mark the wooden floors).

Formal: "To maintain the venue's elegance, we kindly request adherence to the formal dress code and a no-smoking policy."

Casual: "Let's keep it relaxed! Just remember, no smoking at the venue."

Contact information

Let your guests know a point of contact for any random questions or if any further assistance is needed.

Formal: "For any inquiries or assistance, please contact [Contact Person] at [Contact Email/Phone]."

Casual: "Got questions? Reach out to [Contact Person] at [Contact Email/Phone]."

Weather considerations

Include a note about what guests should do in case of inclement weather, or if they should pack anything particular.

Formal: "In case of rain, umbrellas will be provided at the venue entrance."

Casual: "British weather can surprise us. Grab an umbrella at the entrance if needed."

Local attractions and activities

If your guests are travelling especially for your wedding, highlight some nearby attractions and activities that are worth checking out.

Formal: "Explore local sights! We recommend a visit to [Attraction] and dining at [Restaurant]."

Casual: "Looking for fun? Check out [Attraction] and grab a bite at [Restaurant]."

Gift registry

The gift registry is a delicate subject, and you'll want to handle it with care. Not everyone will have a wild amount of money to splurge on their favourite couple (you guys, obvs), and the important thing is to have these people with you on your big day.

Formal: "Your presence is the most precious gift to us. Should you wish to celebrate with a token, we are registered at [Store Name].

Casual: "We don't need gifts, but if you insist, we've got a little list at [Store Name] that might tickle your fancy.

The art of asking for monetary gifts

In some cases, you may prefer monetary gifts over traditional registry items. As with mentioning a gift registry, it's essential to approach this request with tact and grace. And while you don't have to share what the money is for, it's a nicer way to bring your guests along on your journey if you do divulge a little information, so they can almost feel as though they're investing in the start of your lives together.

A formal request for a monetary gift might look like:

"Instead of traditional gifts, we would be grateful for a contribution towards [Specific purpose, e.g., our honeymoon or home fund]. Your generosity is truly appreciated."

For a more relaxed tone:

"We're saving up for [Specific purpose], and your help would mean the world to us. No pressure, though! We're just happy to celebrate with you."

Bonus tips

• Don't specify a monetary amount in your request

• If you have a specific goal in mind for the cash gift, be transparent about it

• Consider setting up a secure online platform for guests to make cash contributions, making it easy and convenient for them


While digital wedding resources have become increasingly popular, the details card remains a valuable element in your wedding stationery ensemble. Your wedding details card is more than just a piece of paper. It's a bridge of communication between you and your guests, ensuring that they have all the information they need to celebrate your day with you.

And, of course, if you need a stationer to help you with your wedding invitations (including details card!), drop me a line here to get your suite underway!

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